Want to stay married? You should consider watching costs when planning your wedding.
That's right, new research shows that the less expensive your nuptials are, the better chance you have of staying hitched.
According to an Emory University study, the stress of wedding-related expenses can lead couples down a rocky road.
They say that the wedding ceremony has a large impact on whether you will get divorced or not.
The average cost of a wedding in the US is around $30,000 and research shows that even just a more expensive engagement ring can lead to the divorce court.
The study found that couples whose wedding cost more than $20,000, divorced at a rate roughly 1.6 times higher than the couples who spent between $5,000 and $10,000.
If a couple's wedding was only $1,000 or less this would be the least likely to end in divorce.
However, the study also shows the more guests that attend a couple's wedding, the lower their divorce rate.
£20,983 wedding: where the money goes
£20,983 wedding: where the money goes
This is the biggest expense, and accounts for 16% of everything couples spend on the wedding. There are endless dramatic places to splash the cash, and if you want to get married in a castle, on a beach, or in a major historic property, it’s all perfectly possible - for a price.
However, there will be those who wonder why the wedding can’t take place in a church or a smart registry office - and the reception in a village hall. These places certainly exist, and could cut the venue hire cost down to a couple of hundred pounds.
It’s not hard to see why couples fancy blowing a fortune on an incredible holiday, but it begs the question of whether it’s such a practical idea.
There’s no earthly reason why two such enormous costs have to be bunched together like this. Surely a wiser approach would be to get married, and then start saving for a great holiday. You don't have to be on a white beach in the sun for it to be romantic or memorable.
This is a huge sum for feeding a few people, and is often the result of the fact that when you are booking a venue, you will be tied into using their caterer.
It’s one reason why a fantastic way to cut costs is to find a venue that lets you do it yourself. That way you can choose between setting out a cold buffet in the morning on a shoestring, or hiring in a cut-price catering option, like a gourmet burger or pizza van.
This includes the cost of an engagement ring and two wedding rings. There will be couples who argue that this is something that you’ll wear every day for the rest of your life, so is worth investing in.
There will be others who highlight that by shopping around you can get the lot (including the obligatory diamond) for less than £400, and anything else is pure vanity.
This includes a heart-stopping £1,098 for the bride’s dress. Just to be clear, that’s a grand for a dress you wear once.
There are hundreds of second hand dresses on sale on sites like preloved if you’re after the big meringue, or you could get one made from scratch for a couple of hundred pounds. Then if you sell it on again afterwards, your dress could cost you less than 20% of this insane figure.
If you’re stuck buying the overpriced booze offered by a posh venue, you’ll easily bust the budget, and if you bring your own to a venue like this they’ll sting you for corkage instead.
A much better idea is to find somewhere that lets you bring your own - and after the first few drinks, ask a local pub to run a bar for you.
The argument in favour of spending a fortune on photos is that this is one aspect of the day that really will last, and if you skimp on the photographer, you won't have a beautiful album to linger over for decades to come.
That said, you'll probably have one hour of looking at your best during your wedding - from when you walk down the aisle, to the moment you have finished taking the obligatory formal photos. There’s nothing stopping you bringing in a professional for that hour, and then setting up a Facebook page for your friends to post all the photos they take throughout the rest of the day and night.
The live band feels vital for some couples, but ask yourself, when was the last time you were blown away by the live band at a wedding?
A far cheaper option is to make your own disco. It’s easy enough to hire some speakers and lights, switch it all on, plug an MP3 player in, and get your favourite music all night for next to nothing.