Couples can't have it all: so what goes?

Sarah Coles
Kate Middleton's dress
Kate Middleton's dress

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It's getting hard to remember a time when we felt we could have whatever we wanted in life. Over-the top wedding? Yes please. Huge family? Why not? And a home to match? It would be rude not to.

Now we are having to make some hard decisions and sacrifices, so what are we giving up?